When I first started thinking about pansexuality and energy-based dating, I didn’t have the perfect words for what I was feeling — just a sense that something about how we connect felt off. Too much focus on appearances, labels, and assumptions. Not enough on presence, energy, or the parts of us we can’t explain but instantly feel.
That’s why pansexuality and energy-based dating align so naturally — they’re both about connecting beyond surface-level traits.
Pan, from the Greek root meaning “all,” reflects a kind of openness — not attraction to everyone, but attraction without limitation based on gender. It’s about seeing the person before the category. Feeling their vibe before asking their label. And in a lot of ways, that’s what Mindful Girl Love is all about.
What Pansexuality and Energy-Based Dating Have in Common
Pansexuality isn’t just about who you’re attracted to — it’s about how you approach attraction. It’s expansive. Fluid. Energy-first. And to me, that reflects what so many of us are really looking for when we strip away fear and old ideas about dating.
Mindful Girl Love was built on the belief that connection goes deeper than compatibility checkboxes. It centers energy, mutual awareness, and realness — all nurtured in a space where you feel safe being seen.
Whether you identify as pansexual or not, that spirit of openness — to people, energy, possibility — is part of what makes MGL different. It’s not just about who you date. It’s about how you connect.
If you’re someone who’s always felt drawn to energy before gender, who notices the way someone moves or speaks or makes you feel seen — you’re not alone. And you’re exactly who we built this for.
Because at the end of the day, energy doesn’t lie — and love doesn’t fit into neat boxes.
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Want to read more about authentic connections? Check out our post on being present in dating.